Sunday, May 11, 2014

Ordinary Days

Well my aspirations for keeping the blog updated proved to be too lofty a goal for this busy momma of four. Sadly, another month has gone by with no updates.

It's hard to believe that we've been in Taiwan for seven weeks now. We are seeking to treasure each and every day we have here on this beautiful island. We realize what a gift from God it is to be here in our children's birth country experiencing Taiwanese culture. Life is also much slower for us here which is so good for Leah while she is bonding to us. Once we return to Louisville, life will pick up speed significantly so it is a blessing to have this time together as we adjust to becoming a family of six. That being said we are beginning to long for home and becoming a little nervous about Leah's adoption being finalized by our scheduled flight home. Please pray with us that we will receive Leah's adoption decrees as soon as possible.

The majority of our days here are quite ordinary. We home school, cook, clean and play. Our main goal for these first weeks has been to focus on helping Leah attach to her new family. She is doing so well and is really settling in. She adores her siblings and her daddy so much and she has definitely become very attached to her momma! She has lots of personality and really likes to be silly. She eats broccoli like it's candy and she can tell me which article of clothing belongs to which family member while I'm folding laundry. She loves holding hands and praying before meals and tries to grab our hands several times DURING the meal to pray again. In short, she's amazing and we feel so incredibly humbled and honored that God has chosen us to be her family.

Below you'll find several pictures of our daily life here in Taiwan.

Joshua has been playing lots of basketball




Samuel introducing Leah to one of his favorite activities
Eating lunch at Costco where we do most of our grocery shopping.
The kids were very excited to eat an American hot dog for lunch!
 

 
 
Playing with chalk on the playground
 

 A little home schooling
 
More Play-Dough fun! 

 
Playing in the baby pool on our balcony
 
More basketball for Joshua - perfecting his skills
 

Leah loves to climb up by Moriah when she's reading
Our sleeping beauty

The kids were a little sad to be missing our typical Derby traditions. We managed to find most of the ingredients for Derby Pie and these miniature pie shells.

Enjoying some ice cream after grocery shopping

Leah loves her seat, because being in her seat means FOOD!

Samuel  and Leah playing together.

The kids fight over who will sit next to Leah at meals so we had to assign each of them a meal. Joshua gets breakfast, Samuel gets lunch and Moriah gets dinner.
They love her so much and the feeling seems to be quite mutual. 

Best buds

Banana . . . or watermelon.  It really is difficult to decide what to eat sometimes.

Watermelon wins!

Hi!  I'm Leah.  I like to color pictures and take the paper off crayons.

Ready for church

 
 
More sister time

Nothing is more fun than BATHTIME!!!!

Watching Joshua brush his teeth is so entertaining

VROOM-VROOOOM.  Joshua and Samuel have cool cars and monster trucks!

Monster trucks are fun, fun, fun!

Did I mention these two are big buddies?

I don't really like to sit in big chairs, but it's funny to watch Mommy and Daddy when I climb on them.





I have a tendency to put too much food in my mouth.

I can't really talk right now.


Cheese!  No, that's not a photo op.  I mean I want to eat some cheese!

Samuel loves to play at the playground 

Leah loves to ride this bike!

Samuel also loves to dunk the basketball.



YEEE-HAWWWW!

Matching jammies. Thanks, Mamaw!
 

Hand puppets on all arms and legs.  Could life get ANY better?


Helping Mom snap beans for dinner
 
Our next post will include details and pictures of some of the fun adventures we've had exploring Taiwan. Stay tuned.


Love,
The Keanes


Thursday, April 3, 2014

How Are We Doing?

Many of you have messaged to see how we are doing, how the kids are adjusting and how Leah is transitioning with her new family. The short answer is great. We have had 11 full days here in Taiwan and they have been just that. FULL. I'll recap with a little Q & A.
 
How are the kids adjusting?
 
The kids are doing great! We have been incredibly blessed by our housing situation here in Taiwan which has been monumental in helping our kids feel at home. We are living on the campus of Morrison Christian Academy http://kaohsiung.mca.org.tw/ in their staff housing. When we arrived on March 22nd, we walked into a spacious, furnished apartment that was stocked with groceries and everything else we would need to get started here. We have some amazing servant minded friends here in Taiwan who took an empty apartment and filled it up with everything we would need. Many families donated beds, blankets, dishes, toys, and furniture. We have been so humbled by the way people we've never even met reached out to help us feel at home here. The kids have made many friends and spend every afternoon after home school playing outside at the apartment complex's playground/basketball court. Jet lag was a beast, but thankfully we are finally past that and sleeping normal hours again.
 
 Moriah climbs this tree almost everyday and reads a book.
 
 Samuel showing off a rock he found.
 

 Big sister swinging baby sister as proud big brother looks on. 
 

 Samuel and Joshua trying to conquer jet lag.
 
 Jet lag means Play-Dough in the wee hours of the morning

 
How is Leah's transition going?
 
As you saw from our last post, we met Leah on Sunday, March 23. We spent the next five days getting to know Leah and letting her get to know us. I (Angela) spent most of her waking hours with her those first five days. We had made the decision before coming to Taiwan that we wanted to transition her slowly. She has been with Ashleigh and Sara, her amazing foster moms, for the last year of her life and we did not want to come in and take her away from everything and everyone she knows until she had a chance to get to know us and begin forming an attachment to at least me. I know for most people adopting internationally this just isn't an option so we feel extremely blessed that we had the opportunity to do this for Leah. On Thursday, March 27, we all agreed it was time to fully transition Leah into our family.  So the following morning, Leah "moved in." She has done exceptionally well. I am so grateful to God for hearing the prayers we've prayed all these months for Leah's ability to attach to us and to feel safe with us. That's not to say she will not grieve the loss of her foster family, but on the whole we have been amazed at her resiliency and how well she is doing.
 





 


 

 
What's happening with Leah's adoption?
 
This past weekend, we traveled by train to northern Taiwan where Leah's adoption hearing would take place on Monday morning. Some of you know that the agency who gave us Leah's referral for adoption, Taiwan Xi En, was unable to complete her adoption so her case was transferred to another orphanage. This "other orphanage" happens to be The Home of God's Love, which is who we adopted Joshua through in 2007. What an incredible blessing it was to be back at The Home of God's Love as a family.  Joshua was thrilled to be able to meet Ted and Bev Skiles, who run The Home. He also had the opportunity to see one his nannies who helped take care of him as a baby. Todd was blessed to have the opportunity to preach at church on Sunday morning and we all really enjoyed our time there. Sunday afternoon, we met with a social worker that the Taiwanese court assigned to our case.  And on Monday morning, Todd and I headed to our long-awaited court hearing with Ted. Everything went very smoothly. I felt such peace sitting in that court room because I knew many people were praying for us at those very moments. What happens now? We wait for Leah's adoption decrees to come. This could take anywhere from 8-12 weeks. Please pray with us that it can happen quickly. We know that with God's hand in it, nothing is impossible.
 
Todd preaching and Ted translating.
 

We thought our family would sit together at a table for lunch, then Samuel disappeared and joined another table.  He felt very much at home!

Samuel, in true Samuel fashion, sitting with his new friends and learning how to use chopsticks.
 
Joshua and Showhwa -- she was so happy to see him!
 
Taking a leisurely walk near The Home of God's Love, Joshua is entranced by his new baby sister.
 

Short boat ride around a lake.
 


On the way back to Kaohsiung, Moriah entertaining Leah at the train station.
 
Eating McDonald's at the train station in Taipei. Why is it that McDonald's is only appealing when you're overseas?
 


 Leah entertaining herself on the train.
 
One more story to tell...
 
I can't end this post without telling about our second day here in Kaohsiung. We were very excited to go visit Taiwan Xi En, the orphanage where Samuel lived as a baby. Taiwan Xi En is also the agency that gave us Leah's referral. However, due to complications they've begun having with American adoptions, Leah's file ended up being transferred to The Home of God's Love, as mentioned above. One of Samuel's sweet nannies who took care of him as a baby was there and she was SO excited to see him. She (and I) cried tears of joy when she saw him for the first time in four years. It was such a special moment. 

 
 Samuel giving Mary Joy a great big hug.
 

 Samuel pointing to his name on the wall of the nursery. How cool is that!
 


That's all for now. I hope to blog more regularly now that things have slowed down and we have gotten more into the groove of our new surroundings. Thank you so much for journeying with us. 
 
 
Love,
The Keanes